HAPPINESS TIP:HOW TO LET GO- of what is holding you back.


I didn’t get round to updating my GLOBAL HAPPINESS PAGE ,yesterday. I was too busy posting about my cat’ Tatiana. I am  just a tad happy at the momento. Right this minute she is sleeping under the quilt with me. Epic moment -which will make more sense if you read the post about my Tatiana. Feel free to read and of course not read (I am merely updating my fellow cat lovers).  Owned 100%. Enough about me. Lets’s get on with sharing how you can drum up some happiness of your own: in your own life.. 

 Lately,I’ve been reading a lot of posts and speaking to a few special people in my life. People who can’t seem  to ‘sweat the small stuff’ out. Stop the ‘little thing’ thought’ critters from holding you back and moving on with your life. I’m guilty of it too.

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SECRET TO HAPPINESS: Let go of your grudges/fears/doubt and heart ache 

TRADITION: Loy Krathon ( Lantern festival)  – I  am aware in countries like the U.K. laws are trying to be passed in  regards to using  lanterns CLIMATE ACTIVISTS CLICK ON LINK HERE FOR SAFE WAYS TO USE LANTERNS

DATE: Usually November – whenever the 12th full moon is according to the Thai lunar calender

CELEBRATED IN: Thailand

Many of us (me included) sometimes tend to speak before engaging the brain and really think about what we are saying to some-one. I’m learning that by me being rather blunt at times. Hurts. There are other ways to tell the truth without leaving a person feeling a bit crap and thinking less of themselves and stop people thinking that others now think less of them.   Most of us mean well and are do not go out of our way to be malicious. 

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Shutting up and ruminating over unhelpful thoughts, creates so much pressure in your brain; that it can leave little room/space in our minds for anything else to help challenge these negative thoughts. Keeping everything inside means all these thoughts accumulate and have nowhere else to go. This can be a major trigger for off- setting Anxiety.

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I’m sure that whoever is reading this will possibly know about the Thai tradition of symbolically letting go of all negativity (anxiety and worries)by lighting lanterns. Thousands of them drift up into the sky, creating a cosy golden glow effect. The simple act of doing and of seeing all these lanterns fly away and disappear-  can create a compelling and magnificent sight.

So, I am only assuming here, you have probably heard this way of getting out negative thoughts from your mind  before. What is that? Well,how can you create this same kind of act of ‘letting go’ wherever you are in the world. You may not be in Thailand and it is only February.

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  • Write every unwanted thought down on paper or whatever you wish ( in this example paper is a good medium) .

  • Make sure each irritating thought is on separate pieces of paper.

  • Allow yourself a moment to reflect on each written thought

  • Then scrunch up the paper into a a ball 

  • Then throw it into you bin/ wast basket -the point is wherever you throw you junk

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  • The not so climate ethical  alternative is to go out side and for a few moments release your inner  arsonist- that little ‘fire bug’ come out and burn each paper – one by one. This a more gradual and meditative way to release all those burden-some worries and anxieties go.  Make sure you lock away your inner pyromaniac, before entering the house and make sure the fire is out! 😀

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I remember a person told me of a really powerful mind exercise to do : Put each thought in a cloud and watch it float away and then watch it fly away and imagine it bursting and dissipating into the atmosphere far away from your mind.

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The message is simple: It is not how you do it- you may come up with your own epic way to let all the crap go. The most important part you need to take away with you from this post. Is DO IT! Don’t put it off. 

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