The Subvertist

*featured image photo credit-Francesca Woodman, Untitled, 1978 

It’s not every day one receives  recognition,

So thanks, Ramjet ye olde poetic punk for this solid admonition.

I love your writing style and sudden denouement friends,

If god should save anyone it should be those who seek to live for alternative ends.

I nominate those who welcomed me into their fold

2nd star to the Left, straight on ’til morning
Brave and Reckless
Howl Davies
Fallen Alone
lois e. linkens
Malicia’s Malebolge
Max Meunier- Dissociative Void
Mick’s Neon Fog
Private Bad Thoughts
Samantha Lucero
The Dirty Limerick
The Hero’s Inferno
The Lithium Chronicles
The Writings of Jasper Kerkau

Idle this journey is not- when we realize true énouement of breaking free from the mold.

Acceptance and humbled – I did not foresee this weeds place in the garden of life.

September 2015 – I turned  my face to the sun and bloomed, a unique individual, with  valid petals  to share with  society;

my heart need not bleed by stabbing it with a knife.

Opened up myself for all to see – vulnerable and strong -I took a risk and said this is who I am.

That leap found me on the other side, looking back -in relief,

I realized that nobody need accept me – I already had found within me – my most loyal fan.

Don’t hesitate, hit publish and know that you can.

God send the haters and their thoughts into a file befittingly named spam.

Inspiration can come from the experiences and people who we must never worry ourselves with that they never gave a damn.

Be an outsider, don’t conform to the norm if it doesn’t balance out with your body, mind, and soul.

You won’t stand alone for long.

Flip the anarchic bird and keep strong.

 Self-belief gravitates towards others who have a similar goal.

THIS IS MY ACCEPTANCE IMAGE   FOR THE BLOGGER RECOGNITION AWARD.

My favourite  painting of Wassily Kadinsky. I first discovered his work in 2005.

That is beautiful which is produced by the inner need, which springs from the soul.

Wassily Kandinsky

 

 

 

 

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Mystery solved

Finally, I can accept this award. My comma, on my keyboard, stopped working yesterday!   Yes, I couldn’t pause, I couldn’t breathe!

Today being the last day of 2016. oh yeah! I would like to thank the lovely -B.G @ Getting Through Anxiety for this mysterious award. I’ve secretly been wanting it for a long time.  mwahaha (evil laughter)

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I will nominate 20 blogs who I think need be seen more and if they are AWARD FREE, I still believe in these blogs and what they have to say. 

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IF YOU CHOOSE TO ACCEPT ZEE- RULES ARE THUS:

  • Display your chosen  award logo/image on your blog- (google images are a great place to find one to suit your style)

  • List the rules

 

  • Thank the blogger who nominated you and provide a link to the nominator’s blog

  • Mention the creator of the award and provide a link as well – OKOTO ENIGMA’S BLOG …Because life is all about learning new things and having fun

  • Tell your readers 3 things about yourself

  • Answer 5 questions from the nominator (me)

  • Nominate 10 – 20 people

  • Notify your nominees by leaving the nomination link in the “comment” of their blog

  • Ask your nominees any 5 questions of your choice, with one weird or funny question (specify)

  • Share the link(s) to your best post(s)

      THREE THINGS ABOUT ME

  1. I am all heart but I can stick up for myself and I am no pushover.  😀

  2. I doubt myself constantly but I never give up 

  3. I woke up to this song in my head

     Q&A TIME

Have you had a crush on your teacher as a teenager?

Mmmh.. I’d be lying if I say no. I vaguely remember a male teacher when I probably not even 12 years old; yet, I can’t remember what he taught or his name or even what school I was at but, I do remember feelings stir inside me.  Obviously very short lived and not memorable enough to go into detail. 😀 

If you had the power to change one thing in your past, what would that be?

I would wear my glasses or beg for my family to get me fitted for  contact lenses so, I could actually see the world I was living in and see people’s expressions, learn to lip read, watch nonverbal communication, not be so internalized and complexed by my imagined ideas of how I thought others felt about me. 

Which country is your next dream vacation, and what made you want to go there?

Really?    cheating here. I need to go to Italy and Greece.  I’m obsessed with Western mythology. I really want to travel to all over the East. I imagine when I visit India, I will wake super early so I can get to the Taj Mahal before all the other tourists so that I can experience being there and feel and hear the energy of silence. 

Do you think it is okay to keep secrets even between best friends?

Well, it depends on the secret. If it is personal to whichever friend and is not compromising my loyalty to my other friends, then yes. It’s a tough one.

If you could be transformed into something else, what would be your preference, and why?

In winter, I would like to my cat – not anybody else’s but my Miss Tatiana. In summer and spring, I would want to be a fairy or a pixie – some creature able to fly, create magic, observe others without being noticed. In Autumn I would like to have a chance to be a tree. I want to know what it feels like to lose my leaves, foliage etc.. I want to feel that season from a Tree’s perspective. Just don’t cut me down. 

MY NOMINEES:   (RANDOM ORDER )  IFYOU DON’T DO AWARDS TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT -I SEEK NOTHING IN RETURN

I’m rolling with the same questions I was asked 🙂 

  1. THE WRITINGS OF JASPER KERKAU

  2. CELONA’S BLOG Expressions Meet Realism; THE ADEPT MIND OF OKPERE CHARLES

  3. samantha lucero she writes stuff sometimes.

  4. Dalindcy

  5. lois e. linkens poems and prose from a confused english student

  6. SEE HOW YOU CAN SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS.. One stop problem solving blog..

  7. summer SHINES Because life’s a playground, so why not play :

  8. Carolina@YesterdayAfter Art Inspiring Magic

  9. SHELDON KLEEMAN

  10. dellartista The Happy Cottage: A place where anyone can come and share their writing, art or just to share thoughts or feelings.

  11. PEOPLE REBUILDERS FOUNDATION

  12. Matthew Tonks’ Twisted Roads of Madness

  13. 1000 Shades of women -empowering women

  14. The Thinkers Paradise A Walk Through Kaleidoscope of Life

  15. Expressions of my life – An evolution of art. MY JOURNEY THROUGH LIFE AS AN ARTIST, FATHER, AND PERSON WITH YOUNG ONSET PARKINSONS

  16. adventuringwithlove-A LIFESTYLE BLOG BASED IN MANCHESTER, UK

  17. The Beauty of Words Mastering social media, writing, and editing

  18. The darkest fairytale

  19. Labeled Disabled The journey of a woman moving beyond labels and disabilities to embrace her true essence and path.

  20. GARY@ Fiction is Food

See you in 2017 – onwards and upwards. Make it your own.

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If you didn’t know…..

Morning Bloggers!

It’s been a stressful year, survived – again! I received my results for my first TMA for my MA .  I’m currently going through my options and rights as a student with the institution I am studying with. I can’t really go into  all the details it at this point.  I have received an unofficial  apology and have been advised to take it further.

I will say: I won’t be bullied by anybody.

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The themes I write about are close to my heart. I will fight for an  official apology , I’m not so sure about asking for it to be remarked-although other people who have read my work and, understand stage and theater  and the issues I raise say I should demand a remark.

 For me, it’s more about the principle. The people in my life who know the full story of what has happened (especially those who  have seen the comments) which don’t focus on  the academic side of my writing (and who work in the mental health and vulnerable  sector in my community)  are furious on my behalf and are  horrified by the ignorance displayed the person who marked my paper.

I have all the evidence and support to take it further, I just need to make a decision.

I will keep you updated on the outcome.

So, on a more positive note I have been nominated for the SUNSHINE BLOGGER AWARD by Megan Elizabeth Creative Imaginations card-flowers-daisies-thank-you-card-flower-chamomile-thank-you check out her random facts page. She’s based in Chicago!

THE RULES

  • Thank whoever nominees your blog – Me in this case! 

  • Indulge yourself and answer any questions you feel happy to answer

  • Spread  that radiance to some other awesome blogs to keep the light shining brightly.

  • Use these questions or make up your own to ask your nominees

  • Tell your nominees that they have been nominated. 

  • Put your preferred logo award on display . I chose this one. 

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Q&A TIME

Which decade do you miss the most?

I don’t miss it because I wasn’t alive at the time. I do feel drawn to the twenties. I love jazz, I love the bohemian artsy fartsy-ness of that time, politics, and art movement that brought so many creative and eccentric and bloody brilliant  minds together. I hate war but I love the culture  that grew from such an inauspicious  time.

Yes, I love the decadence- ignorance is bliss -for a brief moment. I love the lingo, the dancing, the style, I love all of it. The struggles during the war which is a stark contrast to the early 20’s.

I also have always loved Rap/hip hop. I had to know every word of Snoop Dogs lyrics. I do think he promoted his brand in a  sexist  manner but I love his smooth, humorous and effortless way of rapping that doesn’t come across like he wants to start a war. It was about the Fedora hats and Pimps – it wasn’t meant to be taken too seriously but everyone has their own interpretation of the music and the culture that grows from a genre of music.

 I do wish I had been around when disco and hip-hop emerged in the late 1970’s and 80’s. I  love Grandmaster Flash, Mr. Hollywood etc..

 I appreciate how  important music is in forming a culture and how it can divide and bring people and communities together.

 I was a rave bunny, a mosher , a skater girl, a raggamuffin.

I love all music.

I love writing.

I love poetry.

I was a part of the E  generation of the nineties. Alcohol wasn’t a popular drug to get high on and I saw a lot less fighting and a lot of different sub -cultures come together and accept each other for their differences.

To which poet do you feel most connected to?

Charles Bukowski and Sylvia Plath -(didn’t think much of her novel ‘Bell jar’ ) I do love her poetry.

Your spirit cartoon character/TV show artist?

Erm… My latest love is ‘Reign’ – just finished binge watching all three seasons and I love the politics and the scandal of that era  and I love to see queens kicking butt. Queen Mary of Scots, Queen Elizabeth Ist rock!

How has your blog helped you the most?

I get to write and people read my posts and get me! What more can I ask for?

I ‘ve made some awesome connections through blogging – It is a great way for me to express myself in any way I wish.  This blog and the people who support me have seen me through some crazy and turbulent times.

I nominate  -(I know some of these are award free blogs but I feel you have been a great support and ray of sunlight in times of need, whether you know it or not)

 

I think I will stop there

THANK YOU FOR BEING MY BALL OF SUNSHINE !

SUNSHINE WILL FOLLOW THE RAIN 

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Sunshine will follow the Rain

Life is keeping me super busy. I spent all day grading vintage jewellery  yesterday.

– Yay!

La Familia is starting a business.  We are part Russian. We stick together forever. Till death do us part -aaaaargh! 😀

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 Feeling silly and giddy.

I always do when  I have a load on. I think its a  self-defence mechanism .

I’ve been super busy looking at online websites and getting my business mind grooving,

My Bella Bee has been having nightmares about monsters for the past 4 nights.

Super- uber,  bad nightmares.

Why?

Smelly boys   have been telling my daughter that  monsters are going to come to her bed at night.

 ( sung in Phoebes voice ‘smelly cats’ from Friends’)

‘Smelly boys smelly boys,

news alert, your parents dont love you!

Smell boys smelly boys.

You have  tiny pricks  

Smelly boys ,smelly boys.

You make me sick.’

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Cramming in swotting up and getting an Edu Kash un 😉

Go Daisy! Go, Daisy, I’ve got this. I am successful in everything I do’ – I am my own personal mascot.

Today the weather is dismal .

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So, it is the perfect time to accept the Sunshine Bloggers award and spread some light and love to all those who inspire me, support me, blow me away – I’m not going to nominate you all ‘cos I like to be a bit more intimate and personal but this is for all of you – I give you full permission to take some sunshine and accept the award if you want. Your name doesn’t have to be on this list!

WHO DO I THANK FOR NOMINATING  ME THIS AWESOME AWARD ?

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4therace- MY MIND PROJECTED ONTO THE SCREEN  – want to know information on film, society, and Television. Check this Blog out.

Here is a link to his ABOUT (this dude is 17 years old and has more perspective than a lot of people I have engaged with)

WHAT IS THE SUNSHINE BLOGGER AWARD AND GUIDELINES TO ACCEPTING IT?

  •  The Key word  here is Sunshine. So which blogs spread a light on your life, in moments when it rains ,pours and it is windy and your umbrella turns into a crow and flies out of your hand?

  • Answer 11 questions from who nominate you and answer what you feel comfortable answering.

  • Nominate 11 Bloggers

  • Ask 11 Questions off your own

 

4THERACE Q&A  TIME

1. What are the 5 best films of the decade thus far (so that’s 2010-2016)?

I’m going by what I have seen ( state the obvious why don’t I?!)

 

Absolutely Fabulous – the movie!

 

The Get down ( it is a series but I am hooked. My inner teen has a TINY crush on the wordsmith.

 

(through gritted teeth) I enjoyed watching  ‘Suicide Squad’– in my defence, I think it was the soundtrack that swayed me 😀

 

The conjuring two.  – creepy.

 

  1. Lucy – what a find!

 

2.Favourite French Film? If you don’t have one, then favorite foreign language film?

 

It has to be ‘La vie en Rose’ I love Edith Piaf. Her music brings me to tears.

3. If you could only watch 5 films for the rest of your life, what would they be?

 

Bell Vue rendezvous

 

Alice in Wonderland ( 1950’s Disney version)

 

Water for Elephants

 

Natural Born Killers

 

Pulp Fiction

4.What do you have to say about modern cinema?

I’m not really a film connoisseur.  I do like my indie/independent films. I like going to the cinema. – Does that count?  The cinema experience is fun – warm popcorn, surround sound.

5. Anime. Yes or No? Why?

I’ve watched a few bits and bobs  when my husband watches them .I think they are unique, I guess I should give it a proper watch and then make a decision. If I did that I would be condoning my husbands taste in a genre – ha ha!

6. What is a television show that you would suggest to anyone?

Anyone? I was going to shout ‘American Horror story’ but not everyone is into so-called horror. I’ve just finished watching season five of ‘Once upon a time’ – it’s really opened my imagination and helped generate my writing.

7.What  do you admire most about the WordPress blogosphere?

The people. The community- without it I don’t think I would still be Blogging.

8.What inspired you to write your blog?

WOW!  erm… nobody in particular. I just set a goal and said  I am going to write a Blog and I did it and that’s it.  I  have found inspirational bloggers on here that have kept me going. I love a challenge.

9.What would you like to see your blog evolve into (if you want it to evolve)?

I want to link more of my real life endeavors with my Blog -one would be my volunteering. I would like to be able to help people help themselves with certain programmes I have done and trained on. I am in two minds about sharing my vintage jewellery business on here. I may have a link on this Blog, in the future, to my online shop. I don’t want this Blog to be a marketing merchandise blog.

10. What is a blog here on WordPress that you would recommend to anyone and why?

I would have to say Jason from Harsh reality.  He is successful. He has writing talent. He uses his blog as a platform to help promote new writers with their books. He is funny. He is not afraid to put his opinion out there.

11. What advice would you give to someone who doesn’t know what they want to do in the future?

Blog wise? mmm, I would say start with what is going on in your life. That is how I started my Blog. My blogs content evolves with what I do in my Life. I like that about my Blog. I like to see it evolving. I don’t like stagnation. I like movement. I like to dance and keep on the go.

THANK YOU FOR THIS NOMINATION.

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SO HAPPY!

 

Drum roll, please.

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 MY SUNSHINE BLOGGER NOMINEES ( some of the bloggers I would like to nominate are award free so they are obviously not on this list)

  1. SUMMER STARTS TO SHINE

  2. BROOKE@ THEUNTOPIAUNIVERSE

  3. 1000 SHADES OF WOMEN

  4. ROB @ART BY ROB GOLDSTEIN

  5. MAHA @FUNHOUSE VISION

  6. ROSIE@ HOOKUP CULTURE

  7. MELISSA @ THE MINDFUL BITCH

  8. POETURJA

  9. HERB@ H.W BRYCE -WRITER AND POET- Books, Blogs and Butterflies

  10. Tetiana Aleksina aka Unbolt @ UNBOLT ME

  11. MANDY@ MANDY’S THOUGHTS

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     (take your time- no pressure -you can save the  award for a rainy day if you wish to )

  1. If You Could Get Away With A Crime, Would You? If Yes, What Would It Be?

  2. In What Ways Do You Hold Yourself Back?

  3. How Do You Want To Be Remembered?

  4. If You Could Travel Anywhere In The World, Where Would It Be?

  5. What Book Has Influenced You Most?

  6. What’s Your Greatest Achievement And How Has It Shaped You?

  7. If You Could Speak Another Language, Which Would It Be And Why?

  8. . Who’s Your Personal Hero/ Blogger  (optional and why?) ?

  9. What Are Your Three Favorite Albums/songs? Why?

  10. If You Could Bring One Fictional Character To Life, Who Would It Be And Why?

  11. Which 1900’S Era Would You Travel Back To? Why?

Catch up with you soon!

DAISY XOXO

A Dose of Sunshine.

 The sun may have called it a day 😀  but as promised, I have done it! Caught up with all you ,bloody brilliant bloggers who have touched soil with the Willows. 

Finally, I have  had the  attention span and energy to go through all of your lovely blogs. You are all so bloody  unique. I LOVE IT!

This usually takes me a full day and night to do but it is totally worth it. You all are.

I am blown away by the diversity of the people and content  I connect with on WordPress. I am buzzing from checking out your Blogs. I have a massive smile on my face. The sun  is  still  shining for me and my heart is brimming over with sunny Delight.

WOW! I’m speechless. Ha ha!

Thank you for taking a chance on this flower. Me!

I know I have an epic award to receive but I have really wanted to meet everyone who has come into the Willows over the past two weeks.

SHOUT TIME – whoop! whoop!

I do sincerely check  out all your blogs and not only do I give you a shout out to say THANK YOU!  but I pick what I call -MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK to lead other Bloggers to check out your Blogs.

Please check out  these Blogs.

Be comfortable to feel how you want to feel!  

 Be yourself! 

Be! 

Live! 

Laugh!

Cry! 

Be human! 

Breathe in the Good shit!    OXYGEN! 

Thank you for bringing so much colour to my Blog!

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My balanced mind- body- Balancing the Mind, Body and Soul connection

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK:   humor.

THE WRITING CAFÉ A collection of short stories and poems from an evergrowing group of best friends.

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK:  Be Mine

The Bipolar Mum Does Not Play Well With Other

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK: First blog post

Brickley Jules Writes Writing chick lite to erotic romance with some fantasy thrown in.Brickley Jules Writes Writing chick lite to erotic romance with some fantasy thrown in.

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK: #TeaserTues – Her Unexpected Life Excerpt

On The Heath where would-be writer works with words

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK: Sketch for a Theory of Persistent Passions iii

incurablehumanistdotcom

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK: The royally fucked collection.    I NEED TO SAY THAT THIS BLOG FOCUSES ON WHAT I WILL CALL ‘PORN ART’ 🙂

faithfoodfear Somewhere in between graduating college in Biology and attempting to have a life. This is my story of my running, working, relationships, school, friends and support. My ups, downs, complete failures, and undenying truths along the way. Oh, did I mention I am recovering from an eating disorder in the midst of it all? Welcome to life in recovery…. it gets a little bumpy.

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK: Self-Empathy & Compassion

TAKE TIME TO LOVE LIFE.

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Desire

Anmol’s blog My stories from here, there and everywhere!

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : The Missed Spot

YesterdayAfter Art Inspiring Magic

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : My Jewelry Featured On…

simple Ula I want to be rich. Rich in love, rich in health, rich in laughter, rich in adventure and rich in knowledge. You?

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Attention to each other

SHELDON KLEEMAN

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : SILENCE

BLOG BLOOKUP Print your digital content with BlookUp book!

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : WHY BLOOKUP?

The Journey of Letting Go

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : When I Realized I Needed to Let Go

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MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Visions of South Africa: A Guest Post

Storymedic

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK :  Professional Editing

Jude Rants- the wild and tastefully philosophical musings of a carb-fuelled millennial on a quest to manifest herself as the greatest rapper of all time

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : How A Sleepy Serbian Mountain Town Woke Me Up – Part 1

Music 4 Lyfe -Music is everywhere… why not enjoy it?SMILEALWAYS-Let’s write the heart out!

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : POSITIVE VIBES

bewilderedhearts daft who finds solace in writing

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Light in obscurity

My Spanglish Familia SAHM Keeping it Real in English & Spanish

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : My Spanglish Kids & The Sh*t They Say

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MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK :  INCOMPATİBLE

Poems from the Perimeter….

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Status Report: Body and Soul

WILDSOUND WRITING AND FILM FESTIVAL REVIEW Feature Screenplay, TV Screenplay, Short Screenplay, Novel, Stage Play, Short Story, Poem, Film, Festival and Contest Reviews

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : About

BLACKGIRLDOWN.COM- A FABULOUS BLACK WOMAN LIVING UNDER THE CLOUD OF DEPRESSION AND THE STIGMA THAT COMES ALONG WITH IT

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Just Being Myself

LUMINESCENCEBAKERSFIELD

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : 5 Steps to Good Mental Health For A Busy Week

FOR THE LOVE OF PETS

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK :  My kitten growls like a dog!

dellartista The Happy Cottage: A place where anyone can come and share their writing, art or just to share thoughts or feelings

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK :  HONESTY AND HIDING BEHIND UNSEEN CURTAINS

glocalmarketer Loving life’s precious treats.

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : SK-II Dream Park | Change Your Destiny

iscribbledblog

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK  :   MY STAR (ASKI)

THEYELLOWESTHEART

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : The shit of “Figuring it out”

OPAL STYLE CAVE.

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK :  Trendy Afro Styles

MEGAEGGZ-WELCOME This is megaeggz, my name is Josh. This might be unsuitable for you but you know.. PROCEED

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK:    THE THIRD EYE OF THE NTH EYED FISH 

Chelley The Poetess “I am a Poetess and a Hue!”

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Bitter or Better

AN OBVIOUS OBLIVION BLOG

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : I dub thee Unforgiven !!

Scribbbled dreams- Making mistakes, Learning things, Chasing dreams.

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Who is this Society?

NOTICIERO DE ALVAREZ GALLOSO Sports, Cultural and Farandula News

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK :  SEE “REJOICE MUSIC TALENT EXPOLIT 2016 – JESSICA GARCIA” ON YOUTUBE

Mark My World -Hacking life while enjoying everything inbetween

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Suicide Squad Soundtrack

—aynetal3 A topnotch WordPress.com site

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : About Us

—Memories of a Time Memoir Stories, Events in Times Past, Growing up, My Life, Education Ephemera

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : LASCELLES ABERCROMBIE. WHO? PRINCIPLES OF LITERARY CRITICISM (1932)

Magikal Journeys Art Studio ~ Payrography ART (wood Burning Art)

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Art : Grotesque Art

TRAVELLING KRISHNAITE-Shekhar Srivastava’s Blog

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK RELIGIOUS DIFFERENCES-WE NEED TO THINK ALL OVER AGAIN…

GETTING THROUGH ANXIETY A step by step process using practice

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Battle of Mind Blog A blog about self help strategies and ways to benefit mental health: Stigma

ELECTRONIC NEWS BLOG

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : AVVIATORE AUTO 18000MAH AUKEY

University life for me. An account of my years at university

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : First blog post

Books, Books and More Books! Read a Review, Leave a Comment!

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Book Release for September 1st

SCRIBLEDREE-Restoring beauty wherever possible 🙂

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Friend with crazy thought process

DEBATABLY DATEABLE- just another girl trying to figure out Love.

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK: I MET MR. RIGHT AND HE WAS DREAMY (AND HE’S SINGLE)

SINGLE IN THE SUBURBS

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK:  WEDDINGS AND EXES AND SINGLENESS, OH MY!

MINAL DALAL CO-CREATOR Spreading resources for potential living

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Life is Fulfillment at 7 levels

SHINE ONE- From my life #myperspective

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : IS THIS LOVE ?

YOUR FRIENDLY CAR GUY

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Ah the 50’s great time for the automotive industry!

Buzz Of A Lil Bee Loves, life and everything in between

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : And so it begins….again

Nikita

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : Dogophobia

The man without qualities Always at your service (´・ω・`)MYWORDCANVASS- MYWORDCANVASS HOME ABOUT CONTACT BLOG painting pictures with words……

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK:  Innocence

NOT MY SECRET…OVERCOMING THE SHAME OF SEXUAL ABUSE

MY STAR SCENTED POST PICK : TODAY, I CRIED.

Ajay vyas “THERE IS NEVER A TIME OR PLACE FOR TRUE LOVE. IT HAPPENS ACCIDENTALLY, IN A HEARTBEAT, IN A SINGLE FLASHING, THROBBING MOMENT.”

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HAVE A GRAND WEEK.

I HOPE TO GET MORE CREATIVE AGAIN IN THE NEXT FEW WEEKS. DYING TO JUST WRITE.

MY FIRST WRITING DEADLINE AT UNI FOR WRITING (CREATIVELY) 😀  IS THE 24/11 SO WISH ME LUCK!

DAISY ❤ ❤

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You deserve this.

It might look like I am super popular but these awards have been stacking up in my word  doc. file.

Soon, I don’t really know how much time I can dedicate to Blogging. Next week is when more  fun and hard work begins, Again!

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I swear (multiple times a day) that I will check in as much as possible.

I’ve decided to accept all awards I’ve been nominated for and to nominate and spread some Blogging love and recognition to those of you who, are sometimes, the only reason I haven’t signed myself into an old-fashioned, haunted  asylum .

Shout outs to follow another day!

There are a lot of awesome new bloggers who have come into my visual periphery  and I can’t wait to check out your Blogs – in depth.

 

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BEING AWESOME!

 

Let’s get on with the show.

Look at this beauty!

 

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THANK YOU TO MY WONDERFUL , BOMBASTIC BLOGGER MATE,EDDAZ

 – CHECK HER OUT HERE

Guidelines for accepting the award underneath

  • Thank the lovely person who nominated your blog and follow them. YES FOLLOW ME!

  • Display the award and add this set of rules to your post so that your nominees will know what to do

  • Nominate 15 other lovely blogs listing them in your post and notifying them via a link in one of their blog posts.

  • List 7 interesting facts about yourself to the post.

7 “INTERESTING” FACTS ABOUT ME

  1. I should have been born in the 20/60/70’s -alas I was born in the 80’s. I don’t do this look.

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    YOU’VE REACHED AN ANONYMOUS VOICEMAIL NUMBER. I WILL GET BAC KTO YOU.
  2. I am the most complicated person I know. I confuse myself daily, even in my dreams.

  3. I am super excited to start my WRAP (well recovery action plan) facilitator training on 7/09/16 which is a self management intervention to deal with abuse and trauma ( that’s the short version)

  4. I love to write until I am told to. I always think I  don’t get the theory of writing and then surprise myself when I actually get good grades.

  5. Music is my Religion. It is a common unifier

  6. I sell vintage one off pieces accessories to fund my lifestyle.  I need to create a page and need some tips.

  7. I’m in withdrawals at the moment. I need more ink – on my body. So I have to wait until November – a birthday present from my husband.

NOMINEES– IF YOU DON’T ACCEPT AWARDS ,KNOW THAT I THINK YOU AND YOUR BLOG ARE LOVELY

  1. SERENITY ( THREE SOUL BLOGGING SISTERS) -I love your individual blogs already.

  2. BG @ Getting Through Anxiety

  3. CARLA

  4. RAE

  5. ARIEL @ WRITING RADIATION   -I’m playing by the rules and now follow you. 🙂

  6. FIONN@ LIONAROUNDWRITING

  7. 1000 Shades Of Women

  8. MAHA @ fun house vision.

  9. KIMBERLY STARR

  10. unostentatioustruth

  11. ROSIE @ HOOK UP CULTURE

  12. JUANSEN @LONELY BLUE BOY

  13. DR MEG 🙂

  14. PRABHATKS @INKY FIRE

  15. ANNA

 

About the award- “This award is for bloggers who strive to write for everybody, and no matter how many viewers they get, make an impact on a reader. This award is an expression of gratitude to the nominee. It should be awarded to anybody that you choose deserves it.”

HERE IS THE AWARD WITH THE  GUIDELINES TO ACCEPTING IT. 

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THANK YOU TO SWETA . YOU ARE ANOTHER SWEET SOUL IN OUR COMMUNITY. LOVE YOUR BLOG. YOU ARE SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL -INSIDE AND OUT – CHECK SWETA OUT HERE 

THANK YOU paintdigi   FOR NOMINATING ME FOR THE SAME AWARD. I THINK YOU ARE SO TALENTED – LOVE YOUR ART!

MY ANSWERS TO SWETA’S  AWESOME THREE QUESTIONS: 

  1. Which is better – to speak a lie that saves or a truth that kills?

I’m known for being rather blunt and too honest for my own good. I think I have offended people with my truths but I’d rather be real than be fake. I suppose there are different ways to speak the truth that doesn’t come across as obnoxious. Then there are Truths that can’t be dressed up.  Tell it like it is….

2. Whose blog do you relate with and why?

WOW!  There are so many. Lately, so many of you have been so supportive. The first name that comes to mind is ETTA D’s blog – more because I’ve needed to hear motivating and inspirational posts.  My 7 Nominees are the other Blogs I have related to of late.

3. They say money can buy happiness, how correct is the statement for you?

No. Not true inner Happiness but as the saying goes ‘ it’s easier to cry in a Mercedes Benz than on crutches with no car or money to get to THAT  festival you want to go to.’ -It’s kind of like the saying, isn’t it?   It smooths over the rough times but it’s more of a plaster than genuine happiness and contentment.

MY ANSWERS TO PAINTDIGI’S  SUPERB QUESTIONS:

1. What changes your blog, in your life?

  • Everything that I experience in my real life changes my Blog.

  • Other Blogs and different perspectives.

  • My Mood

  • My confidence

  • New interests

  • My Work

  • My Education

  • My daughter

  • My Familia

  • Politics/views/beliefs/emotions

  • People that piss me off 😀

2. What topics do you look for in other people’s blogs?

  • Colour

  • Word flow

  • Energy

  • Art

  • Music

  • Words – Ha ha!

  • Mood

  • Values

  • Beliefs

  • Sex

  • Humour

  • Other  😀

3. What are the 3 cities you want to visit someday?

  • New Orleans

  • Rome

  • St Petersburg

SEVEN NOMINEES ( remember why you have been chosen) 

  1. Beauty Beyond Bones

  2. SHARON

  3. DEB

  4. It’sgoodtobecrazysometimes

  5. TIKEETHA

  6. JASON

  7. BROOKE

MY QUESTIONS TO THOSE WHO WISH TO ACCEPT THE AWARD ARE:

  1. If you had to choose to give up one of your five senses, which one would it be and why?

  2. How do you want to be remembered?

  3. What would be your perfect day? 

THE NEXT AWARD COMES FROM TWO INCREDIBLE BLOGGERS – DIFFERENT BLOGS – TO CLARIFY.

INKY FIRE INKY FIRE  – Love your poetry. You sense of spirit. Thank you.

DOROTHY @ ETCETERA  You have a wonderful Blog. So great, you now have a new friend. Can’t wait to read your future posts 🙂 T Y.

THE AWARD

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I can’t accept the award because I am going to be a true character and step out of my rebellious role (just this once) and follow the rules for once.

I can nominate.

 I intend to keep this award to nominate any new Bloggers who happen to have under 1000 mates in the Blogosphere, when I do my Blog scouting and SHOUT OUTS and thank you’s –  soon.

Watch this space.

Watch it.

Watch it.

 

for those who are not aware, the liebster award is given to bloggers who share great contents and have less than a thousand followers. it is one way to recognize and promote the efforts and works of new bloggers.

INKY FIRE

THANK YOU SO MUCH TO EVERYONE WHO SUPPORTS ME. MENTIONS ME IN THEIR BLOGS. NOMINATES ME. 

I AM SHOUTING THIS.

I NEVER IMAGINED THE RESPONSE I WOULD RECEIVE FROM DOING SOMETHING THAT SCARED THE SHIT OUT OF ME- ONE YEAR AGO. 

PEOPLE WHO KNOW ME HAVE ALWAYS TOLD ME TO WRITE AND BELIEVE IN WHAT I HAVE TO WRITE IS WORTHY OF READING AND CREDIBLE. 

I DON’T THINK I WOULD BE DOING MY MASTERS DEGREE IN CREATIVE WRITING IN OCTOBER IF I HADN’T STARTED THIS BLOG. 

SPEECH OVER!

BE AWESOME! 

BE EPIC!

YOU ROCK!

YOU ALL AMAZE ME IN SOME WAY.  Every day. 

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People are strange

I have to admit something. Jim helped me realize it.

‘People are strange’

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It has taken me so long to realize it. I have been following you.

There I said it.

( cliched tumbleweeds)

People should be fucking terrified but in this world,when someone follows you these days – they are not a creepy stalker but an admirer.

True from a distance but still a fucking stalker- take the violins, roses, and the  Spanish guitar player away. What have you got?

 

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DOESN’T MATTER HOW WE DRESS THIS SHIT UP!

 

 

We have become a nation of stalkers.

We are cool with every soul or blogger or social media entity knowing intimate details of our lives.

How am I supposed to explain the whole ‘DON’T TALK TO STRANGERS’  thing to my daughter?

I do it every day.

Of course, you are all my friends. I wouldn’t keep you in a cage if we weren’t friends.  😀

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Shit just got complicated.

On a different note.

I got a tag.

Oh yeah –

If you were born with a super power tag .

It’s fun, not serious, silly

. Just the right jiggle jaggle to fit in with my mind state.

My girl – ( ghetto lingo never gets old) 😉 E.  – obviously she is flapping fantastic.

We have connected . We stalk one another – un ashamedly and we don’t need to see one another’s private bits to know – we are real.

Touch me!

 

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MAYBE NOT………..

 

 

 

Don’t be a stranger – be a stalker – go and follow my superheroine,mate – EDDAZ. She can heal the world.

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Tag guidelines

  • Name the the creator of this tag . FarahEdz @ The Girl With Coffee

  • Use the Tag image  above

  • Thank your superhero  Nominator -( me) or in my case @ EDDAZ -Love & Relationships, Lifestyle, Poetry 

  •  which or what  super power would  you would want and why.

  • Please  note that you are not under any obligation to participate. I think it’s fun.

  • . The chances of this super power manifesting in your life decreases if you do not accept ( Daisy -me – added that bit) 

IF I HAD A SUPER POWER:

I would love to be able to make people laugh -whenever I wanted them too-  especially when they are Sad or Angry .

TAG YOU ARE IT:

  1. 1000 Shades of Women

  2. LOTTIE

  3. LUKE ATKINS

  4. JASON

  5. MANDY

  6. LISA

  7. DAN

  8. SHARON

  9. ROB

Oh, I am booked in for my next tattoos for my Birthday. Something pretty.

A daisy chain around my wrist or something else -with my own spin on it.

Have a great weekend all. Catch up soon.